“Number 3! Do not come up behind me, rubbing your erect penis on my ass!”

I kinda like that….

Calmate Xemmy! LOL.

He wasn’t right for grabbing you. There’s a little thing called personal space!

And LMAO @ “yo yo look at mah cakes!”

Just keep on danceing

I need to go club great video lol it was funny

Haha, this dude did it to me the other day, except he grabbed my ass and pulled my body to him and rubbed his PENIS against my ass, i turned around and said bitch, i aint ya boi or nothing so dont touch me, then he said im so sorry i wont do it again, let me get to know you, haha so i et him by me some shots of nuvo and stuff. just before u do anything to me, get to atleast know me and know what i like

lol @ “at least older men will offer to buy you a drink b4 they try to touch and tickle”!!!! my sentiments exactly!!!!

xem same thing happen to me I did it lilttle bit different I grabed guys arm and threaten the break guy arm

Come onXem. Honestly no one has the right to put there hands on you. But think about the enviroment that you are in.Men all around you. Pants sagging or breast hanging out.your going to look dont add a cocktail to the mix of this so sad to say you will get touched but i agree with you nobody should put there hands on you cause i get pissed when it happens to me. PrideMIA 08 Friday nite standing inline some 20yr old grabbed my ass.i flipped and they laughed, should have just slapped all 3 of them

Now Xem see how ppl felt when you were 21 grabbin them in the biscuits? lol..its wrong period b/c its a violation unless its your friends playing with you. And no you or no one invites a grab just because their cakes are showing, even though I don’t condone that..It is like a blatant look at my ass…Still look but do not touch..

i wouldnt mine,but if he his digusting,i will tear him up,lol

I understand that you did not want them to touch your cakes and you have a right to feel that way. But to me when I see a man showing his underwear it gives me the impression that he does not respect his self to some extent. And even though your are a 31 in the waist there are belts and pants for people your size to keep your pants from hanging like you describe

I do not know what happened to the comment an individual made (not exact quote): “I understand you are upset, XemVanAdams. But you should not be that upset because you did the same thing when you were younger.” I agree with this comment. Now you know how it feels to be touched without your permission in nightclubs/bars. I suggest next time, just say something along the lines: “hey, do not do that again. If you want to dance or whatever, just ask me.”

Xem honestly the fact ur behind was out it does say ur open to some1 grabbing. I was@ a party recently one of my friends bf’s was w/ us. His bf embarrassed him cuz he had his pants sagging and felt that it invites the unwanted attention

hey GoGOFiasco, what’s a “tramp stamp”?, r u a gogo boy?

I don’t think you are inviting a person to touch your ass just because your pants were sagging. I think it was rude and they had no right.

Ooooh I second that emotion! Especially dem boiz wear dem saggin’ pants wit a “tramp stamp’ above the bootie!!

Sometimes it just looks so appetizing…cant help it

we r all entitled to our individual likes and dislikes… that being said, today in the gay clubs it is very common for guys to walk up and cop a feel. not saying that it is any less rude because of the fact that alot of guys do it. we r living n a time where people r becoming less vocal about their wants and desires. and sadly the lack of vocal communication leads to inappropriate touchin on a regular basis. so much so that in many gay clubs an ass-grab is considered a greeting. sad but reality

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!! mi nigga…i have this problem…i have a hugh ass and small waste and dudes thing its ok to touch the cakes…i get so irritated wen the touch me…

Nothing excuses unwanted groping, I think you were justified in getting upset. And boo on your friend, he should have had your back.

Hi Xemmy! I definitely would say some1 violating u is not your fault, but it’s funny I never understood when str8 guys would say, “look at what she wore” she must want it”, until 2day, I saw a boy wit a bangin bod wearing fitted jeans and T, & I felt very much invited, so my point is, if u no u got cake, don’t make it look so enticing!, if u dn’t want 2 b ate, cause when boys wit cake wear sagging pants, it gives ppl a free xxx show.

this happens to me all the time and i hate it ok so like i be wearing my skinny jeans right right and then like all of a fucking second a person just comes up to me and grabs my ass and i be like 1.bitch back the hell off me 2. stay the hell off me 3. don’t u do that again 4. if you do i will kick ur ass until ur mama won’t recandice ya and 5. move

I feel like this is like victim blaming when someone is raped. Some people say that you have the responsibility to dress “appropriately” so people don’t disrespect you but people also have the responsibility to control themselves and respect your body. You could have been naked at the club it still wouldn’t make it right.

I think the personal space bubble goes away in clubs
and OMG Whats that song at the end of the video? i love it!

when women get raped / experience sexual harassment / abuse an argument that is often articulated is they asked for it…b/c of what what they were wearing, how late they where out…list of fucked up things goes on…the point is, the victim is blamed for the predators actions. stupid. and fucked up